Interesting read! I was in that type of conversation many times. I think success is what makes us happy, as long as we don't hurt someone, and despite other's opinion, needs and judgements. It's not like we were born in this world to please some men and be their "relax dolls". If they don't like you, move on -you will find someone wo will respect you for who you are and your opnions. I'm not a lawyer but always try to say what I think. If the guy doesn't respect my opinions and is not able to have a civilized conversation about the topic, he has a problem and needs therapy. You don't have a "problem" for having opinions and personality and being yourself